Friday, July 16, 2010

Happy Days

First I want to thank you so very much for the precious and supportive comments on my last post. It means a great deal to me that so many of you care and continue to follow our journey and take the time to encourage me with your words. Thank you!

We have had another very busy and very full couple of weeks, but I'm grateful for every moment. Last weekend we had our third baby shower, near my hometown this time, hosted by my sister and held at her church. We celebrated sweet Lily with cake, food, and gifts galore!

(Me at 29 weeks, with the adorable cake)

(With my lovely sister and mother)

I was so touched to have so many wonderful people there with me. My husband attended this one and was our official photographer for the day. My sister and mom were there, of course, as well as members from both my mom and dad's side of the family. My dad and his wife came by for a little while before the shower began. It is always a bit tricky to have events like this when you come from divorced parents, but thank the Lord it went really well. Two of my older half-siblings also came with their families, along with my mom's sister, my dad's sister and my 92-year-old grandmother. Chuck's sister, grandmother, and aunt were also with us that day.

(My husband and me with our sweet grandmothers)

There were so many friends surrounding us and it meant so much to us! Four of my classmates from grade school were there and another dear school friend was there with her sweet daughter who is practically grown now. I could go on and on about how I felt seeing the joy on the faces of our family and friends over this miracle! As hard as it used to be to imagine attending my own baby showers, I have to say they have been such memorable days for me. Just as I hoped and imagined, I'm able to look around the room and thank the Lord for putting people in our lives who truly love us, care about us, and pray for us. It's hard to find words to express how that makes me feel.

I was touched to have several old friends there to share the day with, but I also had a very special guest whose presence made me cry tears of joy. There, at my baby shower, I was able to meet a precious blog friend face to face for the first time! This was my third time to be able to meet a fellow blogger in person and it is always an incredible experience. Crystal and I made the connection quite a while ago that we were from the same general area, and I was delighted that she came to share this day with us. You see, Crystal is also expecting her miracle baby, due just three months after my Lily! Oh how I've prayed for her throughout her struggle (just as I still do for so many of you) and it was such a huge blessing to be able to share hugs, tears, and smiles on that day.

Thank you so much, friend, for giving me this beautiful memory! I can't wait to tell my daughter about it someday. The gifts you brought were so precious and I know they were from the heart!

We once again returned home with a car-full of wonderful, generous gifts from dear friends and family. My sister, her friends, and my mom did a great job of making the day so special for us.

We've had our sweet nephew, N, here with us for the week and we have had such a great time spending one-on-one time with him! We made this plan several months back so we could spend some extra time with my sister's boys before the baby arrives. They usually come together, but this year they were both so excited about coming one at a time. So we've had a 7-year-old with us all week and we are sad to have to take him back home this weekend, but his older brother will be here with us next week! I know I don't have to tell you how much we love spending time with our boys. :)

Finally, can I just tell you what a remarkable uncle my dear husband is? He has come home from work every single day this week excited and ready to spend some fun time with N. They went bowling, played at the arcade, and spent an afternoon at a water park. The three of us also went to the movies, played games, and got in lots of cuddle time with movie nights at home. Even as I write this from the living room couch, they are curled up in our bed watching The Lion King together. (Actually, I just peeked in and they are both asleep!)
My husband loves it. And he will do it all over again when N's brother comes to stay with us next week! I love watching him with my sister's kids, and my heart overflows when I imagine how wonderful he will be with his daughter.

One of the last things they did together before we take N home tomorrow was put Lily's crib together. N loves to help build things, so it was the perfect project for them! We got the rest of the furniture in this week as well and her room is beginning to take shape. We don't yet have the crib mattress and the walls are not decorated, but I will post pics of the nursery in the coming weeks when it is done.

I can't believe that tonight I will go to sleep in my house while the room down the hall has a baby bed in it. Thank you, Lord. My heart is full!

One final word: please keep my sweet mom in your prayers. She had back surgery (which lasted a whopping seven hours) this week and is still recovering in the hospital. I know she would greatly appreciate your prayers right now! We will see her this weekend.


Aubrey said...

You look so adorable and pregnant! Glad the shower was such a nice time.

Hope in Virginia said...

First I have to say that you are absolutely, positively gorgeous! Pregnancy certainly suits you and I can tell through the computer that you are totally glowing. You just couldn't be any cuter.

And second, so happy to hear about your fun baby shower. As someone also from a divorced family, I know how awkward things can go so glad to hear it went off without a hitch.

And that is so sweet to think about your husband with your nephews. Clearly he is going to be an amazing daddy to sweet Lily.

I'll be praying for your mom and a speedy recovery :)

Andrea said...

So happy that you are indulging in the wonders of pregnancy and allowing all those who love you to "shower" you during this very special time. You deserve every ounce of this happiness.

May GOD continue to bless your journey and keep you safe.

Anonymous said...

You look absolutely beautiful! Your friends and family are wonderful. It must be amazing to be living the dream you've had for so long!
I'll be thinking of your mom and praying for her!

twondra said...

Awww, this brings tears to my eyes. I'm so happy for you! You are so blessed and it's so deserved!!

Definitely praying for your mom! Keep us posted!!!

PFM said...

Looks like you had a wonderful time!

katdish said...

Look at your cute pregnant self! I'm so happy/excited for you! So cool to meet face to face with a blogging friend, too. Especially one who has been a prayer partner as well!

Praying for your mom.

Amy said...

What an eventful time you are having! So glad that you are surrounded by people who are totally celebrating this pregnancy with you! I am amazed at how it is closing reading this and seeing your baby showers!

Jenn said...

What a great and happy post this was! I was so thrilled to see you and Connie and your mom. I have missed y'all so very much! So glad to be there on your special day.

My prayers are with your mom. She's a strong woman.

Amazing Life said...

I loved meeting you AT YOUR SHOWER!!! What a miracle that day was and that we were both carrying our miracle babies ;)

Your shower was so much fun and there were some thankful and happy tears during the words your sister spoke and during the reflection time the minister's wife shared :)

Hope you are feeling well! I can't wait to see Lily, you are getting so close to meeting her. One day when yall are in town when it is not busy, we will have to meet for dinner so that my husband can meet you and your husband!

Still praying for your mom's recovery. I know that somehow the pain will diminish in time!!

Anonymous said...

How exciting! You looked beautiful! So glad for these happy days

Journeymark Cards & Gifts said...

Stacey, you look beautiful!!! I love that you are being showered with gifts for this sweet miracle. Please know that you have people who are continuing to pray for you and are celebrating with you.

I will be sending you a gift soon!!
Love ya,

Sunny said...

Stacey, you look beautiful, radiant and so peaceful! Thank you for sharing the pictures with us. This is such a blessing to see all that He's done playing out in real and living color. Can't wait to see Lily's sweet face now! :)

Katie said...

Oh my gosh, you are a beautiful, glowing pregnant woman! I am so glad that you had such a lovely shower! I am so happy for you.